OH, THE VOICE OF THE HEART THAT IS NOT UNDERSTOOD BY MAN NOR WOMAN.

Women you do not know man, and man you do not know women. For women are creatures of sentiment and beauty with the flow of feelings that are not linear. And man, you’re not understood with your logic, your work and your occupations of business because that has become your escape. And so, when you’re with women you try to take care of her needs that come from your toils in the soil and yet you do not even look at her heart for you fear her. And women, you feel your power of delight and the energy of your sexual enticements, not respecting the man and his plight of not knowing your nature.

A man will not keep his heart open when it is attacked and his resilience to keep it open is not like women. A woman can emote and be emotional without meaning because it feels good and this is what they need to do. Women cycle their emotions and their minds detach and then come back as they drift in their creative juices. Man, you do not know of this principle for if you’re caught off guard in your tempo you shut down, looking back to the catastrophe of what happened to you in the moment of a woman’s passion that was not in sync with what you thought, nor will it ever be.

Women you have lost your wisdom to understand that man is a very complex sensitive creature but only for short episodes, for if his heart is open and you burst your emote at the wrong time he will not know what hit him and recoil and find another diversion that is safe. Then you will have lost the attention of his heart which is what you wanted in the first place! And man, many a mother did not teach you the wisdom and nature of women, for their beauty is like a rose. You must be careful in how you handle a woman for if you reach without understanding you will have your hand bleeding.

For there lies the nature of women, that you must learn how to handle them and find an elegant vase in the dwelling of your soul, for their beauty is only for a while before they wilt. Man, you must always be on guard and yet open to understanding that when the kettle is on fire it will hiss and whistle and so is it for women. They will react and sometimes you must turn the burner down and leave them be to vent or you will get your heart scalded. A man will build a fortress when his heart is broken, forever shutting out the woman and she may not even know why for they do not understand how men are wired.

So women, understand that you can reflex among your gender and wake up the next day or in your menses completion and be innocent as to what the last stages of your emotional flare-up was about. And a man may have been hurt by his very own mother in the lack of nurturing to her son, and may never ever really trust this venerability of the love of a woman. But there is the beauty and the sensualness that pulls the man to woman and women know this. But many do not understand the vulnerableness of man and become seductive, many times injuring man with their sudden changes of emotion when his heart is still open. Once closed a man may never open up again.

So to women, if you find that your man is not there emotionally for you here lies the crux. Man will be there for you but you must never fire your missiles at the wrong time without warning him. And man, you must learn to take your space and be away without comment when the kettle is steaming and the heat cannot be reduced, sometimes they need to vent. Your lesson is to learn how to rebound after time and restart your hearts before you prove how strong you are and ignore your love. For this will not resolve the issue of love and how your natures are wired.

Take heed both of you, for when you understand this you can become great friends and principles of nature you both must know.

Quentia

2 thoughts on “OH, THE VOICE OF THE HEART THAT IS NOT UNDERSTOOD BY MAN NOR WOMAN.”

  1. I very much appreciate this post and I have to let it percolate. Thank you. I remain in a long term mutually loving relationship, and yes, I do fire the missiles at the wrong time, and always preface that a missile is coming from me. and not meant for him. It is my own missile, it is my own clearing/cleansing and he is not my target. My heart is my target, healing it is my aim. We travel will together so long as we talk about what is really going on. Thanks, much love always.

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  2. Reblogged this on lovieblog and commented:
    I very much appreciate this post and I have to let it percolate. Thank you. I remain in a long term mutually loving relationship, and yes, I do fire the missiles at the wrong time, and always preface that a missile is coming from me. and not meant for him. It is my own missile, it is my own clearing/cleansing and he is not my target. My heart is my target, healing it is my aim. We travel will together so long as we talk about what is really going on. Thanks, much love always.

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